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A Bi-Monthly Newsletter of the Inner Outer Partnership
Volume VI Edition 6 November/December 2001

Making Peace Work
What We need to do
     In the wake of the attacks on the World Trade Center and the Pentagon we can't help but have many questions. Chief among these, perhaps, is what do we do to answer evil acts? The great majority of U.S. citizens endorse the President's answer of war. Increasingly, however, people here and abroad are questioning war as an act that brings suffering to innocent civilians and if prolonged risks engaging us in atrocities not much different than those we withstood. It is natural, therefore, that in these post Viet Nam days where globalisation means more than the ease of world wide communications, talk of war calls forth talk of peace.
     But what does peace mean in this instance? Does it mean we do not believe in fighting terrorism and decimating it as much as possible? Is it a refuge from our discomforts about the realities of war, realities we want to distance ourselves from, from sacrifices we do not want to have to make, from issues too painful to confront? Or is peace a set of optimistic speculations, ideals based on a normative view of human nature, or an idealized perception of one's behavior in the face of evil. Peace is neither a refuge nor a set of speculations optimistic or otherwise. Peace is a goal to strive for and one which is usually far harder to achieve or work towards than a series of pronouncements no matter how well intentioned. Terrorism such as that witnessed September 11th is evil and "closing the door where evil dwells" as one prayer puts it, is part of our human responsibility. And yet do those of us who talk of peace know what to do to meet this responsibility? Do we know how to fight terrorism? Its easy to find fault with what others propose, and even easier to cite apt truisms such as the fact that the use of violence only breeds more violence. But could we come up with viable solutions given the myriad constraints? Could our programs decimate terrorism without adding to either suffering or violence? But accepting the limitations of our stance in this unconventional war does not mean we are to accept, resign ourselves to or endorse current policies. There is much we can do. For example:
  • Let's endeavor to think clearly, ascertain our fears and hopes and what we really mean when we use words like peace, war and terrorism.
  • Let's strive to be realistic. Other incidents or attacks will occur. The past shows us that this is part of a pattern and we must prevent future attacks and the harm they would cause. Somewhere in this dual track of prevention and eradication our leaders will make mistakes, will say and do things that we not only disagree with but that will prove to be in error. It is doubtful anyone could handle a problem of this magnitude flawlessly.
  • Let's steel ourselves and let the good prevail. Much good is coming out of this, the working together of many nations for example. As we reshuffle our priorities nationally as well as personally we ought to admit that we are better off, stronger without the superficiality and trivia weve eliminated, and that this act of evil is eliciting from us a good that can only strengthen us and the nations of the world.
  • Let's tell our leaders what we think, and as we do insist that the causes of terrorism be addressed. There is much discontent in the world and that discontent if not causal is fueling underlying causes. Let's insist as well that violent acts be last resorts and that humanitarian efforts to counteract them be instituted. (Please note that our voices are being heard; thus far this is being done). And too let's remember that open debate does not mean our point of view has to prevail nor that theirs is right.
  • Last, let us remember that united we stand, and united we can stay if while not allowing the consequences of violence to control us, we keep a wise understanding of the limitations of asking for peace.
Rep. Barbara Lee - Lone Vote of Wisdom
     When the 535 members of Congress voted to grant the President broad authority to use military force in the war on terrorism after the September 11th attack, Rep. Barbara Lee (D-Oakland) was the lone vote against it. Many called her unpatriotic, some called her a traitor, one colleague even called the vote a display of "supreme poor judgment and gross egotism."
     To her the action was a way to act responsibly both as a citizen and as a representative. "When you disagree," she says, "you are demonstrating the beauty of this democratic system. And that's the true American way. I want to bring the perpetrators to justice, and I want to see a peaceful world."      " I did not know going into it that I would be alone." She had discussed the issue with many colleagues and she was not the only one feeling that way. "I'd agonized over this vote" she continued "We're all mourning. We're angry and frustrated. I felt that in this environment of grief {someone} needed to say let's show some restraint in our response. Let's not do anything that could escalate this madness out of control. Let's know the implications of our actions, and let's make sure that our system of checks and balances is maintained. We need to figure out a way to stamp out international terrorism and bring these perpetrators to justice without creating more loss of life."
     Moral courage is often harder than sheer bravery. It's still rare enough that it ought to be trumpeted whenever and wherever it is found.

The Rent-Wage Gap And Affordable Housing
     The average U.S. worker must earn at least $13.87 an hour to pay the rent on an average two bedroom apartment. This is almost three times the federal minimum wage of $5.15 an hour and a little more than double that of California at $6.25. The study by the Washington based National Low Income Housing Coalition warned that such findings imply that more and more people will be living in substandard housing. The problem is particularly acute in cities where rents have risen above the national average. California is hit particularly strongly. In Orange County, for example, a worker would have to earn $21. 27 an hour, $21.00 in Ventura, $19.73 in Los Angeles, $15.19 in San Bernardino and $14.31 in Riverside just to be able to afford current rents.
     Affordable housing has been a long standing necessity. When combined with the fact that the current wage structure is not able to keep up with the needs of the rental market, the problem becomes acute. In Southern California alone some 500,000 people earn the minimum wage. If they do not end up among the working and homeless, they stand to increase the rolls of those forced to live with inadequate plumbing, exposed wiring and holes in walls.
     True, poverty in the United States for the year 2000 fell by 1.1 million people to 11.3% which means that 31.1 million people are now in poverty. But recent economic trends point to downturns for 2001 and most likely 2002, perhaps presaging a sense of urgency for addressing the issue of the wage-rent gap.
     It makes no difference whether we call addressing the wage-rent gap a spiritual or an economic imperative, nor on what ground we justify it, it just ought to be addressed.

Divorce Rituals - Breaking Old Barriers
     Divorces even when amicable can be so taxing and difficult that anything that stands to alleviate the emotional strain is welcome. Although some churches and synagogues have been offering divorce rituals for as long as 30 years, it seems a new idea for many. In fact Methodists may add an official divorce ceremony into their book of worship, a book that is reviewed every 20 years or so. Several other religious denominations, Episcopalians, Unitarians, the United Church of Christ as well as Reform Jews are now beginning the practice and all have adopted special prayers or new liturgies in trying to aid those coping with the traumas of divorce.
     It is a ritual well suited to families with children providing a sense of continuity, a time where the ending of the marriage can be seen as a new beginning. The ceremony only works for couples who have been able to transcend acrimony and bitterness. For those who can undergo it, it not only concretizes both an ending and a new way to relate as a family but also permits family units to experience a sense of wholeness regardless of the divorce.
     The practice is not limited to religious venues. There is also a growing tendency among couples who are not religiously affiliated or who do not want a religious ceremony celebrating their divorce to go ahead and make up their own rituals or throw their own party.
     The idea of divorce rituals has its detractors, those who say it is anti-marriage and those who believe that marriage vows should remain no matter what, people who are already critical or ambivalent about divorce. Another criticism comes from the fact that given that many couples can't be sufficiently free emotionally to benefit from it, the practice is still for the few.
     Too many of our thoughts about divorce or marriage for that matter are subject to outmoded notions which are at odds with the deeper general understanding struggling to emerge both spiritually and culturally. For example, the idea of divorce as sin, or even as failure, needs to be revisited and hopefully transcended. If we are to bring human institutions more in line with the needs of the future, let alone those of the present, we can welcome the idea of divorce rituals as a small and promising step.

Web Site Of Interest: www. nolo.com

Law For All
     The site claims to make law available to the people and it offers a host of information enabling many to avoid a lawyer or at least to be more conversant with certain issues in hopes of perhaps reducing the number of billable hours. The legal dictionary, for example, explains many terms from alimony to custody and from mediation to torts. The site has 18 different areas including divorce, landlord\tenant, small business and employment. Each area is like an on-line mini-course defining terms, issues and applicable laws. Since it is also the home page for Nolo Press and its products the site has a full supply of do it yourself books, manual and forms. Most of the forms can be downloaded, thus saving one much effort in locating them in brick and mortar stationary stores.
     The site's Democracy Project aims to streamline the legal system and make it more available to average citizen, and in doing so carries the spirit of its founder, Ralph Warner. In 1971 Warner then a public defender, began Nolo Press in the attic of his home. In 1999 the company moved to a former clock factory in Berkeley.
     Another feature contributing to the site practicing what it preaches is Ask Auntie Nolo, a dear Abby sort of on-line service where individuals can ask legal questions and receive a personalized answer.

To Ponder On
"We have a great mass of humanity that is paid extremely low wages. We've left two-thirds of humanity behind. We have to find some ways to integrate them into the system without causing catastrophic change for the one-third who already have high wages."
Edward E. Leamer, economist and director of the UCLA Anderson Forecast